“Dear men…
She knows you crave to make love
She understands it tops your to do list…
And she desires to make love too
And she desires to make love with you
But first a woman needs to FEEL
As if you love ALL of her being
From head to toe
Inside and out…
The best and the worst
Every expression that makes her unique
It is not enough that you told her yesterday
Or you are sure she felt it last week
Every new moment is a blank slate
Intimate connection is foreplay 24/7
And if she isn’t feeling it from you
Her heart cannot surrender into love
She wants to know
You desire all forms of intimacy…
Meaningful conversation
Emotional depth
Spiritual growth
Sexual exploration
Because each enhances
Expands and grows your connection
She needs to feel safe in your arms
Without judgement
Without criticism
Without control
She wants to travel in tandem
North, South, East and West
Growing together in every direction
Flying
Diving
Climbing
Falling…
And rising in love…
With you
She wants you to kiss her soul
Not just kiss her lips
She wants you to yearn for her essence
Not just yearn for her vagina
She wants you to hear her thoughts
Not just hear her groans
And she wants you to open her heart
Not just open her legs
And the only way she can feel this…
Is if you still want to connect with her
At those times she doesn’t feel like making love
When you still accept her
When you still honor her
When you still revere her
When you still love her
When you move in closer
Instead of moving away
When you stay present
Instead of showing dismay
When you still want to be with her
And just look into her eyes
Because that is enough
In any moment in time
There are many reasons why
She may not feel like making love…
But whatever those reasons are…
She is choosing to honor herself
And she needs to know
You honor her too
So please don’t close your heart to her
Open it wider to embrace her
Exactly as she is…
All of her
The beautiful irony is…
That when a woman feels this connection from you
When she knows without a doubt
That you love her for exactly who she is
On any given day
Sex or no sex…
When she feels you are there to give
Not just for what she can give you…
She feels so loved
And cherished
So seen
And heard…
That she wants nothing more…
Soon enough
Than to make sweet love with you …
A man she can respect
Honor and adore
