Category: Spiritual Writings

“God has given us the gift of the grace of healing to use for ourselves.  So why wouldn’t we use it?  When I see someone using healing grace for themselves, it looks like a wave coming from the whole of the body — from the toes to the top of the head, it flows out to about one foot away from the body.  And then like a wave breaking, turns back and fills the whole body it has come from.  When it re-enters the body, I see it flowing like a river, like a line of gold toward the part of the body that needs help.

Let it fill you up like a wave of peace.  It sounds complicated, but in fact, it’s quite simple, and many people do it instinctively.  Try and become more conscious of using healing grace for yourself and get into the habit of using it no matter how trivial the hurt, emotional or physical, may seem.  Remember, there is an abundance of healing grace; using it for yourself does not mean there is less for someone else.

Too often we lack compassion for ourselves and are very judgmental.  I meet many people who hate themselves physically; they won’t allow themselves to see the beauty of their bodies.  Whether we believe it or not, we are all perfect.  What you perceive as faults are not faults.  They are a part of the unique being that is you.

Get into the habit every day of taking ten seconds to acknowledge the healing grace within yourself and feel its power at work within you.  Your guardian angel will help, too.  Ask to become more conscious of the power of the grace of healing within you so that you will allow it to flow through you for the healing you need.”

A Message Of Hope From The Angels, Lorna Byrne, pgs.66 – 67.

Clif High is an author who writes about health, fitness, and dieting.  His work is available on Amazon.  Below he explains the seven forms of human love with an emphasis on how men can develop ‘Romantic Love.’

“1. Eros (Romantic Love): Eros is named after the Greek god of love and fertility, representing passion, desire, and physical attraction. It’s often the initial intense attraction that draws two people together, but it can also be fleeting or evolve into deeper forms of love. If Eros does not evolve, it dies.

2. Philia (Friendship Love): This type of love is based on mutual respect, shared experiences, and a genuine liking for each other’s company. It is commonly found among friends who share common values, interests, or activities. Philia is the base layer that binds the social order of families into an interconnected whole.

3. Storge (Familial Love): Storge is the love that exists between family members. It’s characterized by deep affection, a sense of duty, and a commitment to caring for one another. It’s often considered unconditional and persistent, enduring through many life changes. Storge is where sacrifice originates.

4.  Agape (Unconditional Love): Agape is selfless love, similar to what some might call spiritual love. It is universal and altruistic, extending beyond personal attachments to encompass care for others regardless of reciprocity. This type of love is often associated with religious or spiritual beliefs about loving others as one’s self and seeking the good of others before one’s own. This association arises as Agape is a natural and expected result of most enlightenment experiences. As Rumi states “Love (Agape) is your bride to everything.”

5.  Ludus (Playful Love): Ludus is flirtatious and playful, without the intensity of eros. It’s found in the early stages of a relationship, where teasing, jokes, and light-hearted interactions are common. It’s more about enjoyment and fun than deep emotional commitment. This is the cool and fun interaction between humans as ‘lovers’ that is just so annoying to others who don’t have it in their lives.

6. Pragma (Enduring Love): Pragma is practical love founded on reason or duty and one’s longer-term interests. It’s common in marriages or long-term partnerships where the couple works together to achieve their mutual goals, balancing practical daily life with maintaining affection over time. Pragma is the ‘bonding love’. It is the enduring, supportive Love that moves civilization to great achievement. Every ‘thing’ in your body’s Life experience comes from Pragma.

7. Philautia  (Self Love): This type of love relates to self-esteem and self-worth, and it’s about taking care of and being kind to oneself. It’s considered necessary by many philosophers for being able to offer love to others, based on the idea that you cannot give what you do not have. All of YOUR body’s Life experience of Love grows from Philautia. If you can’t stand yourself, how can you expect her to love you?

The search for the experience of Love in this body’s Life is the most challenging aspect of the Life experience in this Matterium. For most men, it is easier to face death in combat than approach a woman who you would make into your Love interest.

So men, to become a successful ‘romantic’ work this list from the bottom up. First find something in yourself to love, that you love about you. Cultivate it, be practical about it, what does it offer to her? Be playful about expressing your self love to her. You are actually attempting to entice her mind to see that quality that you love about yourself. Love others, they have good stuff in them too, even when their lives are so mean, and suffering filled that they can’t even see their own qualities of value. Learn to Love your family, your wellspring, even if they are mostly buttheads. Be her friend. If you can’t be her friend, love her like a companion you want with you through time, then all you have is a sexual attraction which will fade quickly once satiated.

No mean, suffering, self-loathing man ever built anything worth having. Civilization comes only from the Romantic. Get wise to reality. It’s where you will spend this body’s Life.”

https://clifhigh.substack.com/p/what-is-love

“From a young age, we are taught that letting go is a sign of weakness or failure.  But what if the opposite is true?  What if letting go is actually a sign of strength, courage, and wisdom?  Recent studies in psychology and neuroscience have shed light on the power of letting go.  Researchers at Stanford University found that individuals who practiced letting go, experience less stress, improved mental health, and greater life satisfaction.  They also uncovered that the act of letting go activates the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for decision-making and emotional regulation.

This research suggests that letting go is a skill that can be learned and cultivated.  It is not about erasing memories or pretending that the past did not happen.  It is about choosing to release the emotional charge associated with those experiences.  It involves creating space for growth, healing, and new possibilities.

‘Letting go’ is a lifelong habit to develop; it is not a destination to reach.  It requires patience, practice, and a willingness to step outside your comfort zone.  But the rewards are immeasurable.

When you learn to let go, you open yourself up to a world of possibilities.  You become more resilient, adaptable, and free.  You create space for joy, love, and abundance to flow into your life.

‘Letting go’ is a concept that can improve your life, yet it is many that struggle to fully grasp and implement.  As you set off on this journey of  personal growth and self-discovery it is essential to understand the profound impact that releasing attachments can have on your psychological and emotional well-being.”

“We would say that when you experience trauma in this life you accumulate biases. Because this occurs, there is virtually no place to store the light.

We would recommend creating space, creating an opening, for more light to pour in from the greater self that you are. To do this, it is easiest to make a practice. You can do this with a visualization. You can do this through any type of artistic endeavor. You can do this through song. You can do this through writing. The focus is creating a space.

Your lives there keep your mental processes busy almost all of your waking hours. Because of this, there is no room for much else.

When you create a practice to make space you leave an opening for the things you want to pour in. This includes the feeling states you wish to hold.

And so, we encourage you to choose the method you enjoy most and create a space, a void, in your daily lives, and watch how your emotional state changes. Watch how your life transforms.

For some of you it could happen very quickly. For others, it may take a little time. We also recommend noticing – perhaps even writing down – the positive changes you see reflected after creating this opening in your lives.”

https://www.amandashertzer.com