“As your vibrational energy becomes more positive and balanced, you will actually feel lighter; the density of carrying a weight of anxiety will diminish and you will stop worrying about outcomes you cannot control. Instead, you will decide to direct positive focus on things working out for the best of all concerned.
Our channeled friends, Bashar, Seth, and Abraham, have something further to add to this:
‘It is important to action your highest excitement every moment – the vibration energy that represents your true natural self. Act this way with zero expectation as to what the outcome ought to be and you will be walking the optimal path, no matter how it looks.’ ~Bashar
“To change the physical effect you must change the original belief – while being quite aware that for a time physical materialization of the old beliefs may still hold.. If you completely understand what I am saying however, your new beliefs will – and quickly – begin to show themselves in your experience. But you must not be concerned for their emergence, for this brings up the fear that the new ideas will not materialize and so this negates your purpose.’ ~ Seth
Notice the particular emphasis on acting without concern or checking to see if results are happening. It’s a bit like the old adage: ‘A watched pot never boils’; or not digging up seeds to see if they have started germinating – just days after you have planted them.
It’s as if the act of looking for changes in external physical feedback gets in the way of them occurring. I would suggest this is due to having a limiting or controlling expectation of how you think something should or could happen and not trusting, or allowing, that alternative outcomes could be just as possible.
‘The key is, you have to find ways of improving the way you feel from right where you stand before things can begin to change. By softening your attention to the things that are going wrong, and by beginning to tell stories that lean more in the direction of what you want instead of in the direction of what you have got, your vibration will shift; your point of attraction will shift – and you will get different results.’ ~ Abraham
Seth, Abraham, Bashar! – All That You See Is Yourself, Richard Gentle, pgs. 18 – 19.