Engaging in silly chatter about another doesn’t truly say anything about them. It just shows unconscious aspects surfacing within your own experience.
We are part of a vast Universe that consists of Divine Laws. There are 50 primary Universal laws. In knowing that, everything that presents itself in our experience can be applied to some form of a Universal Law – if not many in one instance.
One in particular that comes to mind is the Law of One – which states: “Every Soul, living and discarnate, is connected at the level of the collective unconscious, deep within the Higher Self. We are all part of a great energy gestalt called God, and because we are part of God, we are God. It is the goal of the Gestalt to move the energy forward creating more energy. So in living harmoniously we each increase our vibrational rate and intensify the vibration of the entire gestalt, because we are ONE. Everything you think, say, or do effects every other Soul”.
When one focuses on the “lower” aspects of another, which in truth is still an aspect of you, you are only attracting that which you are emitting, via your thoughts, into your experience. Aka: the Law of Attraction.
When we can focus on the Beauty and Love of another, we too attract that level of vibration. If you’re not sharing Compassion or Kindness for others, then there are still aspects within yourself that are being neglected. When we can look past the egoic identities of others, and know the truth of who they are, we at that moment know our truth as well.
All is Love!