Deciding On Relationships

“Sometimes you have to make those hard choices and decide for yourselves what is most appropriate when it comes to the other people in your lives. If you are growing, expanding, and evolving at a faster rate than someone else, and you can feel that it is time to say goodbye to that person in some way, shape or form, then that is what you need to do. Now, the other person may not really want to experience that separation or distance. In the case of a romantic relationship, they may not want to experience the break-up, but that is all probably because you are vibrating at a higher frequency, and they are attracted to you and that higher vibration of energy that you hold within yourself.

You sometimes have to set boundaries with people in order to maintain that higher vibration, because they will seek as much of your time and attention as they can get when they haven’t discovered that they have the power within themselves to vibrate at a higher frequency. Even if you love that person, you can always love them from a comfortable distance. You can send love; you can feel compassion; you can hold space for them to get what they need so that they can start vibrating at a higher frequency and join you in that higher-frequency range.

You can never cut someone out completely, because they will always exist inside of you, and when you have a relationship to someone else that feels powerful at any time, you can rest assured that you will be together again when you are on the same wavelength. We tell you this because of how important it is for you all to maintain that higher vibration for the entire collective. You are doing so much more for all of humanity than you are ever doing for one or two individuals. So remember that and take care of yourselves, set healthy boundaries, and trust your feelings. They will always tell you whether someone is a match to you or not.”

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”

Daniel Scranton, The 9D Arcturian Council

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After thirty years of teaching Inner City, Special Education students and forty-five years of metaphysical studies, I have decided to share my life's philosophical understandings on this wonderful website. For me, everything in my life has been a spiritual experience from being raised in an alcoholic household, to marriage and teaching, and finally caring for an Alzheimer parent. I have sought at least fifteen, personal psychic readings to try and assist me as a wife, teacher and caretaker. I want to share the wisdom that I have gained from following the valuable spiritual guidance from my inner knowing and from heeding the advise of channeled answers from trusted psychics. At almost 70 years old, I am writing, traveling and enjoying retirement in Florida.

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