“We are before you today with answers about your lives. ‘Why did this happen?’ ‘How did I undergo that?’ ‘What was the purpose of this event or that one?’
Everything you undergo in life — high, low, in-between — is party to (associated with) the evolution of the soul.
It does not mean you chose it. It simply means you aligned and agreed to it.
When 
you are lifting from the old, the things that you will encounter are those creations that were known by you that had a residual effect (left-over or remainder effect) on the perceptions you now hold.
In some ways, what you are doing is seeing to re-see, unknow-ing to know. (Now to un-know, in this example, is simply to decide that the assessment that you made at one time of what something meant can be replaced by a higher knowing.)
There are ways you understand yourselves through events in life — the death of a parent, the birth of a child, the markers that claim you in a new trajectory (path). But even these things, whatever they may be, are often misunderstood.
The trajectory of a life (…or the path of life that a person chooses) has a patterning to it, and the soul in all ways is the keeper of this pattern,
which simply means that you have come to learn will be presented to you because
you are in alignment to it.
And these events of a life, which are there to support learning, will contribute to the full evolution of the soul.”
Resurrection, Paul Selig, p. 190.
