What a real man should bring to the relationship!A woman’s expectation of wanting a “soul-connected, conscious, man who unconditionally loves and adores her,” is not unrealistic. It’s what a real man should bring to the relationship.
But men, in general, have failed. We haven’t gone within and made the shift from our ego-self to our heart. It’s been about us, and what we can get without really giving up our self-centeredness. We haven’t done the inner work. We’ve been more concerned about what pleases our eye than what satisfies our soul.
And we certainly haven’t treated women as our softer equal. We’ve been too busy pretending that we have all the answers to realize that women have a far greater understanding of love and life than we’ll ever have.
For a man to evolve and become all he is meant to be, he must love a woman with all of his being. But not just any woman – only the one who calls to the deepest recesses of his soul. There, in the merging of the two, she awakens his masculinity to receive the beauty of her feminine.
For it is through intimacy with her that he learns to surrender and become vulnerable.
It is by understanding her ways that he comes to know the mystery of his own heart. It is by sharing love with her that he discovers how to love the world.
When a man loves a woman, really loves her, he gives unconditionally from the abundance in his own soul – and in the process, unlocks the floodgates to the river of love that pour out to him from within the woman’s heart.
Women deserve so much better. It’s time for a new breed of the masculine to rise up and take a stand. It’s time to show the world what a real, awakened man is. It’s time to return to love.
~ Daniel Nielsen (posted on August 14 2016)
