“(40) QUESTION: Dear Kryon, when we experience the sudden loss of a loved one (Human or a pet) through accident or trauma, what are some helpful, concrete ways to alleviate the sense of shock one feels? (I also believe that it’s harder to go through this as a Lightworker, as part of me knows that my loved one is in a place of peace and joy, yet there is still the veil that makes this feeling of separation seem so real and painful.) Is there a way we can still energetically connect with the lost one’s presence?
I know you’ve talked about grief before, but I’d like to know specifically some actions or things that would help move one through the initial sharpness of the pain, and the shock, while on this side of the veil.
ANSWER: Dear one, you’re correct. You’re built to grieve, and it’s not only appropriate, but honored and understood. Although we stand next to you through all of this, it often just isn’t enough.
There’s more than one thing you can do to get through this process more gracefully: Seek out a place where you can physically help someone. Go to a senior center and read to people, go on walks with them, or help them do their therapy. Meet at places where others are grieving and just listen to what they’re going through. And this one might sound bizarre, but exercise! Your own body chemistry can help you balance when you do these things.
The grieving will slowly subside, but you’ll always have a place in your heart that hurts a bit. This is normal. Never try to eliminate that or feel it’s inappropriate. The reason these things are so difficult is that you truly are connected at a level that’s beyond the physical. Your duality sees the one who you lost as “gone for good.” This is your reality, and there’s nothing you can do to change it. However, I can tell you something that will come to pass for certain – 100 percent. You’ll have a reunion with the ones you “lost” and it will be grand! I speak from experience, having watched it many times . . . even now as I speak. There’s nothing in the Universe like it – when the love of God manifests itself between entities who are connected both in Human life and on the other side of the veil, but who haven’t seen each other for a long, long time.” kryon.com
