Category: Religious Messages

This story happened in the days of Lao Tzu in China and Lao Tzu loved it very much.

There was an old man in a village, very poor, but even kings were jealous of him because he had a beautiful white horse.  Kings offered fabulous prices for the horse, but the man would say, “This horse is not a horse to me, he is a person.  And how can you sell a person, a friend?”  The man was poor, but he never sold the horse.

One morning, he found that the horse was not in the stable.  The whole village gathered and they said, “You foolish old man! We knew that someday the horse would be stolen.  It would have been better to sell it.  What a misfortune!”

The old man said, “Don’t go so far as to say that.  Simply say that the horse is not in the stable.  This is the fact; everything else is a judgement.  Whether it is a misfortune or a blessing I don’t know, because this is just a fragment.  Who knows what is going to follow it?”

People laughed at the old man.  They had always known that he was a little crazy.  But after fifteen days, suddenly one night the horse returned.  He had not been stolen, he had escaped into the wild.  And not only that, he brought a dozen wild horses with him.

Again the people gathered and they said, “Old man, you were right.  This was not a misfortune, it has indeed proved to be a blessing.”

The old man said, ” Again you are going too far.  Just say that the horse is back… who knows whether it is a blessing or not?  It is only a fragment.  You read a single word in a sentence– how can you judge the whole book?”

This time the people could not say much, but inside they knew that he was wrong.  Twelve beautiful horses had come…

The old man had an only son who started to train the wild horses.  Just a week later he fell from a horse and his legs were broken.  The people gathered again and again they judged.  They said, “Again you proved right!  It was a misfortune.  Your only son has lost the use of his legs, and in your old age he was your only support.  Now you are poorer than ever.”

The old man said, “You are obsessed with judgement.  Don’t go that far.  Say only that my son has broken his legs.  Nobody knows whether this is a misfortune or a blessing.  Life comes in fragments and more is never given to you.”

It happened that after a few weeks the country went to war, and all the young men of the town were forcibly taken for the military.  Only the old man’s son was left, because he was crippled.  The whole town was crying and weeping, because it was a losing fight and they knew most of the young people would never come back.  They came to the old man and they said, “You were right, old man–this has proved a blessing.  Maybe your son is crippled, but he is still with you.  Our sons are gone forever.”

Judge ye not, otherwise you will never become one with the total.  With fragments you will be obsessed, with small things you will jump to conclusions.  Once you judge, you have stopped growing.  Judgement means a stale state of mind.  And mind always wants judgement, because to be in process is always hazardous and uncomfortable.

In fact, the journey never ends.  One path ends, another begins:  one door closes, another opens.  You reach a peak; a higher peak is always there.  God is an endless journey.  Only those who are so courageous that they don’t bother about the goal but are content with the journey, content just to live the moment and grow into it, only those are able to walk with the total.                                              Osho- Until We Die, pp. 36-40.

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”  “An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind.” These were famous Gandhi quotes.

“Fighting evil with evil won’t help anyone.  You can always choose how to react to something. When you incorporate this thought habit more and more into your life, then you can react in a way that is more useful to yourself and others.

You realize that forgiving and letting go of the past will do you, and the people in your world, a great service. And spending your time in some negative memory won’t help you after you have learned the lessons from that experience. You’ll probably just cause yourself more suffering and paralyze yourself from taking action in the present moment.

If you don’t forgive, then you let the past and this other person control how you feel. By forgiving, you release yourself from those bonds.”