A State Of Limbo

“A state of limbo.  What does this mean?  You are waiting for something to occur or for an answer, and that could go either way:  either in your favor, as you would perceive it, or against your favor.  The human does not like to be in limbo.

You desire certainty, and it is your desires, wants, and needs which cause you to suffer.  What if you can allow things to play out as they will, and you use that period of uncertainty to focus on what matters most:  on being the presence of love, on identifying and healing inner wounds, and knowing that healing takes place in ways you may not ever imagine.  Miracles come in many forms.  Feel not frustrated by this period of limbo.  Bend and sway, allow and learn from this period of limbo until the new now reveals itself with total peace.”  suzannegiesemann.com

Expectation

“Expectation indicates the juncture between where you are and where you want to be. Where you want to be is your desire, and where you are is your Set-point or habit of thought. And, somewhere in there, is what we would call expectation. Expectation, whether it is wanted or unwanted, is a powerful point of attraction. Your expectation is always what you believe. But the word expectation does imply more what you are wanting than what you are not wanting. It is a more positive word than it is a negative word. But of course, you could expect negatively—and whatever you expect, you will get!”

Abraham-Hicks, 12/20/03

If Only – Sanaya

“If only you could remember to breathe.

When you are stuck in old patterns of thinking and doing automatically, you are not present.  When you are not present, you are either living in the past or in the future in the mind.  Fear, guilt, worry … anything but peace.  Whirr, whirr goes the mind, and the breath is far from flowing.  It is shallow and infrequent or rapid rather than deep and slow.

If only you could remember to breathe.

The next time you are about to give in to lower vibrations, to give in to addictions, to give in … pause for a moment and breathe in slowly, deeply, and deliberately.  Focus on that breath.  Feel the shift.  How does it feel?  It feels completely different from thinking.  Do it again.  Now do it again, paying attention to the shift in how you feel from moments before.  Do you still have the same cravings?  The same fears, the same anger?  No, because now you are present.  Now you are focused on one thing.  You are pulling in and connecting with the Life Force.

If only you could remember to breathe.”

suzannegiesemann.com

A Message From Ann & The Angels

My dear friends, we love you so very much,

We wish to be very loving with you today as we address a sensitive topic– one that if properly understood can grant you great freedom and grace, and this is the subject of “control.”

You have a saying on earth about certain individuals on your planet – “Oh he’s a control freak! She’s a control freak!” You say it as if this is an unusual ailment, but as we see it (and we say this with love), almost every human being upon the earth is a “control freak” in one way or another.

We are not saying that most of you have any conscious desire whatsoever to bend others to do your bidding! Most of you would never dream of dictating another’s choices, nor coercing them to do your will. Most of you would say, “I have no desire to control anyone else.” We believe you! However, control can show up in very subtle and self-sabotaging ways.

For example, say you want to help someone you dearly love. Suppose they are sick or engaging in unhealthy behaviors. You teach them about proper nutrition. You share information that can help them. You suggest they see healers, counselors, intuitives, etc. All of these are very loving and kind suggestions.

What do you do however, when this individual wants nothing to do with your kind offerings? What do you do when they continue to engage in behaviors that continue to hurt them, and in turn hurt you? Can you simply love them, allow them their path, and take care of your own joy? Or do you get frustrated and upset with them – angry that they won’t listen to you or accept your help?

Dear ones with all love and respect, we must point out that getting frustrated with another when they won’t listen is really a symptom of being frustrated with yourself… because you can’t control them! Even if your desire is to assist someone you love dearly, you can’t force them bend to your will.

Love offers. It doesn’t insist. Love allows. It doesn’t judge. Love is deeply honest and allows you to say, “I love you and care about you and want you to be happy and healthy but I no longer know what to tell you since you don’t like my suggestions. I pray you find another way. It hurts me to watch you hurt. I’m going to go take charge of my own joy and well being. I’ll be here if you need my assistance or suggestions. I’ll be honest about what resonates with me and what does not.”

Then dear ones, allow yourselves your own health well-being, and joy, whereupon your loved one may feel a bit left out and perhaps tend to their own a little more carefully!

A second example of subtle control happens within your own psyche, when you want something and don’t know what to do to make it come about. You want more money and don’t know how to generate it. You want to heal a relationship and don’t know how to do so. You want to find a new job but you haven’t yet had any success. You want to solve a problem but don’t know where to turn.

This is where most human minds start to take control! You worry. You over analyze. You search for solutions far past the heart’s true desire to do so. You are trying to control the outcome, instead of relaxing into the arms of the Divine…

Give your problems to the Creator. Relax. Enjoy your day and understand that when the time comes to act you will be guided.

Our wish for all of you is that you would learn to notice, love, and soothe your inner control “freak.” Reassure this part of yourself. Tell them that when you can’t control another, you can love them through their lessons. Remind this part of yoruself, that when you don’t know what to do, the universe does.

Speak to this part of yourself as you would speak to a worried child. It is simply a part of you that wants so much more for yourself or the world, yet doesn’t know how to get there.

When your inner “control freak” learns to F.R.E.A.C. (Finally Release Every Attempt to Control!) you will experience immense relief! You’ll rest, knowing that you are deeply loved and guided. You’ll breathe easy, knowing the universe has your back. You’ll release yourself from being responsible for other adults, knowing that each soul must choose their path and the accompanying lessons.

Releasing control in the situations where you really don’t have it is the secret to enjoying a life of deep, and abiding peace… no matter what the world or those around you choose.

God Bless You! We love you so very much.
— The Angels

Stop Making An Effort And Let Go Completely

“Be very, very still and allow every new experience to take place in your life without any resistance whatsoever. You do not have to Do anything, you simply have to BE and let things happen. It is so important you stop trying; you stop making an effort and let go completely to let Me work in and through you to perform My wonders.”                                                                                                        

Eileen Caddy, guidance@findhorn.org

Powerful Principles Create Better Living – Jeff Michaels’ Onereon Channelings

“In an effort to assist you to create a better, more spiritual World to exist in while in the physical realm, here are several steps you can take.  Many of these will be familiar to you in a personal sense of manifesting.  We give the reminder first and ask that you pay attention to what follows.

Create more space in your life.  this does not mean that you must eliminate all things.  Retain things of value.  Move along other items that no longer represent the way you are currently. This often can include people.  There are those who may seek to impose limiting beliefs on your reality.  Be bold in creating new areas of existence.

Release the need to know how or when something may happen.  It is magic. Do not ask how the trick is accomplished.  Only enjoy the result.

Let go of limits.  Too much definition locks the energy into a course that it may not be able to follow.  Be specific, but only up to a point.

Ask for worthy things.  A vast sum of money is an unnecessary thing to request.  Money is simply a symbol of energy.  Why ask for more energy? Why not ask for what you want or need?  The Universe is filled with the energy you need to create what you desire.  Money is an unnecessary step and slows down the achievement of your desire.

Avoid distractions.  Make a choice and pursue the goal.

Be in gratitude for what already exists in your life.

Believe.  Trust that it will happen.  Understand that timelines are not followed in the same way spiritually as physically.

These are powerful principles.  Act as if your desire is already truth.  Allow yourself to live in the image of your goal as reality.  Speak in terms that indicate you have a clear vision of the outcome as a solid thing.  If you can manage this, you will be well on your way to living an abundant spiritual existence within a physical realm that is experiencing great turbulence.”

“Onereon Writings” presented by Jeff Michaels.

 

Your Attention to Things

“By My Attention to Things, I Am Making Choices… What people do not understand is that you do not choose something by looking at it and shouting ‘Yes, I would like some of that!’ You make your choices by your attention to things. In this Universe that is based on attraction, when you look at an unwanted thing, your attention to it causes an activation of the Vibration within you, and then the Law of Attraction brings more like it into your experience.”

—Abraham, Excerpted from the book: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

 

A Change In The Dynamic

“Do you steel yourself at times in advance of a visit from someone with whom you have a history?  This is a mistake.  People change, and we are not necessarily speaking of the one coming to visit.

You are growing spiritually.  You are changing daily, becoming more loving, more accepting, more understanding, more patient, better able to take a higher perspective.  Steeling yourself and expecting the same dynamic between you and the other says in advance that you expect to go backward in your learning and behavior.  Perhaps the other has also changed.  Perhaps not, but if you are truly growing, then expect a change in the dynamic during the visit.  Programming is quite easy to overcome once you realize that roles are not static, but indeed, dynamic.”  suzannegiesemann.com