Controlling vs. Allowing

d6161b9f1ffe5ee9e0b5187a080a0379“These two words, control and allowing are synonyms for attachment and non-attachment.   If you allow, you let others go in love; if you control, you attach them instead to your own way of doing things, your own beliefs and expectations.

When one person is trying to control another in a relationship, he usually doesn’t admit what is going on.  Instead, his motivations are made to look like love.  Isn’t it loving to protect your partner, look out for her interests, oversee her wants and desires?  For many people this passes as genuine love.  But controlling people deeply fear abandonment.  They are afraid someone will reject them and they will be powerless.”  “The Path to Love,” P.198, Deepak Chopra

Angels on Earth

cf8d8afec51f151c0ff899bb02473423“Many of them (angels) function as free agents, not designated to a particular person, and often they are called upon to help an assigned angel in need of reinforced energy or wisdom.  Indeed, angels are strong in energy and rich in wisdom, but even they have their limits!  Often angels work through entities in human form who are, however, more than human in capability, and through them the angels perform their services.  Also, some of the lower angelics can live within Earth density.  They take on a human form and serve the needs of humanity with great benevolence.  Someone who says, ‘She is an angel’ might be absolutely right.   “Matthew, Tell Me about Heaven,” P. 79, Suzanne Ward.

Listening to a Woman’s Feelings

th-25“When a man can listen to a woman’s feelings without getting angry or frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself. The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.”  John Gray

There is No Coincidence

11268902_904684796255994_2228810970554911394_n“I tell you this: There is no coincidence, and nothing happens “by accident.” Each event and adventure is called to your Self by your Self in order that you might create and experience Who You Really Are.

All that is required is to know this. For you are the creator of your reality, and life can show up no other way for you than that way in which you think it will.
 
Thought is pure energy. Every thought you have, have ever had, and ever will have is creative. The energy of your thought never ever dies. Ever. It leaves your being and heads out into the universe, extending forever. A thought is forever.
 
The Laws are very simple. 1. Thought is creative. 2. Fear attracts like energy. 3. Love is all there is.
 
There are no coincidences in the universe.”                                                           
Neale Donald Walsh, “Conversations With God,” Photo by Clark Little

Move Along Your Path

Sometimes it’s hard to keep moving in the direction of your dreams—particularly if you’re hung up on the “cursed hows.” How am I going to get there? How can I make this work? How can I do that? But the truth is, the “hows” are the domain of Divine Intelligence and worrying about them limits its ability to reach you. When you let go of the “hows,” you engage the magic of the Universe and begin creating new possibilities for how it can reach you.

Don’t get stuck waiting for your “ducks to line up.” There will always be reasons you can’t take the next step. The exciting truth is that once you start moving, your ducks will come running! Once you start, the resources you need to finish the journey will be summoned – like more confidence, inspiration, creativity, as well as new partners, friends, and serendipities. But you must start, even when you don’t know how you’re going to finish. You must first move along your path so that the Universe can meet you every step of the way.  hayhouse.com