His Holiness, The Dalai Lama

16-Dalai-Lama-Quotes-To-Live-By“Tenzin Gyatso, who turns eighty-two on the 6th July 2017, is the longest living Dalai Lama to date.  His Holiness is the spiritual leader of the Tibetan people.

In 1989, he won the Nobel Peace Prize for his efforts to restore peace to Tibet. He is renowned across the world as being a prominent campaigner for compassion and peace. He makes an effort to promote compromise between conflicting ideologies wherever possible and is known as the one of most progressive religious leaders in modern times.

The teachings he offers the modern world are based on humility, kindness and above all, love. He speaks clearly and his lessons are simple. As a modern moral authority, he teaches people to live without judgement and to embrace humanity.

“The purpose of all major religious traditions is not to construct big temples of the outside, but to create temples of goodness and compassion inside, in our hearts.” Dalai Lama

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Attracting Desirable Relationships

honeymoon-effectI Can Attract Relationships That Agree with My Desires… People are not finding it difficult to find the mate of their dreams because that person is not out there, but because of their own contradiction to their own desire in the thoughts they offer about the subject every day.

When you consistently offer thoughts about your future relationship that feel good while you think them, that means you are consistently matching the desires that you have discovered as you have lived life. And under those conditions, only someone in agreement with your desires could come to you. Under those conditions, no need for control is necessary.

Through each exposure to interacting with others, you launch continuous rockets of desires of what you prefer. And only when you are a Vibrational Match to the culmination of those desires will you allow your rendezvous with someone who matches those intentions that you have gathered along your physical trail.

—Abraham— Excerpted from: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

The Up-Leveling of Human Compassion ∞The 9th Dimensional Arcturian Council

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

You have exceeded our expectations on several occasions, and we are pleased to announce that as a result you are taking yourselves closer and closer to the completion of your shift in consciousness. You are opening yourselves up more and more to the energies that are flowing to you. You are finding creative ways of expressing that energy and sending it to where it can do the most good.

And as you work in that way, behind the scenes, so to speak, you help every imaginable situation on planet Earth at this time. What we have noticed and appreciated most about the human collective is your ability to sense when someone else is in need of help. You are becoming more and more telepathic and empathic, and therefore, you don’t need to be asked for help in order to give it.

Oftentimes your friends, relatives, spouses, children will try to deny what it is they are feeling. They will want to pretend that everything is okay, but you sensitive ones are able to detect when something is not quite right. And you take the higher frequencies that you are opening yourselves up to and you offer them to the individuals in your lives that need the most help. This is not even considered a sacrifice to you.

You are happy to help. You are happy to direct that energy where it needs to go, and we see you doing this with people that you don’t even know at times. That is one of the ways in which you are exceeding our expectations. The amount of compassion that is offered and felt by the human collective goes far beyond what any of us in the higher realms could have predicted.

There are certain collectives up here who have more faith in humanity than others, but none of us could have expected the up-leveling of compassion that we have seen in recent months on the collective scale. We are continually blown away by what you are capable of, by how much love is in the heart of humanity, and by your willingness to accept your current circumstances.

Many of you are helping others in whatever way that you can, and at the same time, you are feeling that you could use quite a bit of help yourselves. That is the energy that is going to lead to the collective consciousness expanding and ascending, and that is what we are witnessing, every single day.

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.” danielscranton.com

Osho on Emotional Pain

“In our society, men in particular have been taught not to cry, to put a brave face on things when they get hurt and not show that they are in pain. But women can fall into this trap too, and all of us at one time or another might feel that the only way to survive is to close off our feelings and emotions so we can’t be hurt again.

If our pain is particularly deep, we might even try to hide it from ourselves. This can make us frozen, rigid, because deep down we know that one small break in the ice will free the hurt to start circulating through us again. Tears hold the key to breaking out of isolation. The tears, and only the tears, have the power to melt the ice. It’s okay to cry, and there is no reason to feel ashamed of your tears. Crying helps us to let go of pain, allows us to be gentle with ourselves, and finally helps us to heal.”

Osho Zen Tarot, www.osho.com

Ramtha on The Eagles’ Love

“But the great eagle, some turtles and some lesser birds, they find a mate and they mate for life. That once they have found that one being — that they never mate again with another bird.

So even in the animal kingdom, there is love.  And the love that I am speaking about is a love that resonates in seven seals*, and we are going to learn about that. That even the eagles know absolutely deep, passionate love; they know absolute trust, absolute dependency, and they know that their mate is irreplaceable.  And how greater are you than eagles?”

“That Elixir Called Love,” p. 38. (*  The Seven seals are powerful energy centers that constitute seven levels of consciousness in the human body.  The highest level of awareness is in the seventh seal. p. 244)

The Most Common Sign Of A Toxic Relationship Is That You’re Totally In Denial About It

By Brianna Wiest Writer, Editor, Human. Author of 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think.

“What differentiates a toxic relationship from an abusive one is the fact you don’t realize a relationship is toxic until after the damage has already been done.

Toxic relationships poison you slowly and quietly. That’s what makes them so dangerous.

You don’t stay in a toxic relationship because you lack self-worth, or don’t have the guts or the strength to leave, you stay because you see a silver lining. You stay because you’re convinced that person is your soulmate. You stay because alongside the painful dismissal of your feelings, they pacify you by making promises, highlighting the signs that you’re meant to be. The hope they give you eclipses your pain and then your ability to reason.

You stay because you’re trying to be strong. You stay because you’re taught that there’s no such thing as a toxic person, and that you should take control of your own emotional experience. You stay because someone tells you that the problem is you.

But “toxic relationships” are not the same thing as “wrong” relationships. There are manipulation and diversion tactics at play. These people gaslight, project, twist your words and use them against you. It’s a psychological trap that is designed for you to lose, and the single most pervasive symptom of it is that you find yourself constantly trying to justify why you’re even together in the first place.

The most common sign of a toxic relationship is that it’s one you must constantly, tirelessly defend. Do you know why you’re so defensive? Because you know. Deep down, you’ve known and you still know that something is wrong.

Toxic relationships carry on because you become convinced that you need them. That’s why your brain tries to convince you that you should stay. If you actually felt that you should, it wouldn’t have to work so hard to prove it.

Toxic relationships are blinding, compelling and insidious, and they can take everything from you, but they cannot take your instinct. They can rob you of your joy, your money, your time and the life you once knew, but nobody can take that little voice away from you. You just have to learn to listen to it.

The victims of toxic relationships are not stupid women (or men) who were so desperate for companionship that they wouldn’t let go. They are victims because they were intentionally manipulated for sake of someone else’s gain. They are victims because they were brainwashed to trust someone else’s words over their own instincts, and they are victims because they were baited to keep coming back for more.

But the thing about these kinds of relationships is that they usually do not go on forever. At some point or another, the inner voice wins out – it always does. At some point, victims reach their saturation point, and snap. At some point, the last straw is thrown and they wake up and put all the pieces together.

At some point, they realize that they were blinded by their hope and strength and will, and that someone took their good nature and used it against them.

And what they realize, in retrospect, is that they always knew something was wrong. Being in denial means knowing and not wanting to know – and that’s exactly what a manipulative partner would want. Not for their victims to be content with however they treat them, but to see them weather the most brutal acts, and to still come back for more.