Overcoming A Victim Mentality

“1. Release the pain of the past.
To overcome your victim mentality, you must release the pain of all those past experiences, buried deep inside. You need to release negative feelings – fear, guilt, hate, anger, self-pity – because they keep you in captivity and reassert your identity as a victim. Forgive those who have hurt you. As I have written elsewhere, forgiveness does not mean justifying the actions of others. It is a purely internal act of letting go of painful feelings. Only when you forgive will you be free.
2. Take responsibility for your life.
The main thing you need to do to regain power is to take responsibility for your life – for the feelings, thoughts, and reactions you choose to experience. Realize that the complaining, unhappiness, and blaming does not solve your problems. Think about what you personally can do and take action.
3. Remember that you always have a choice
We can always, in every situation, choose how to react. At any moment we can regain power by making the right choice.
4. Change your vocabulary.
Change the words in your vocabulary that make you feel like a victim. For example, instead of  ‘should,’ think ‘choose to;’ instead of ‘I hope,’ say ‘I will;’ instead of ‘There’s no way out,’ think ‘I know there’s a way and I will find it;’ instead of ‘I can’t’ say ‘I will try.’
5. Learn to say ‘no.’
People who have a victim mentality, often have difficulty saying ‘no.’
6. Change your attitude.
Change the focus – from what you don’t have or what makes you feel wronged – to what you do have and your strengths. Keep a notebook, listing everything good in your life, and practice being grateful about it.
7. Taking small steps outside of your comfort zone.
Begin with just one small step outside your comfort zone, and you will begin to change from a victim into a confident and self-respecting person.”
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Consciousness / Universal Mind / Source Of Creation

“There is one Consciousness or Prime Creator and that infinite, eternal energy became ‘Manyness’. While we appear separate and individual, we all came from this one Source. And that Source is experiencing itself as ‘Infinite Manyness’. We are many facets of one diamond (universe) of endless, innumerable others!

Through experience, we evolve ‘our personal point of awareness’ at different rates and we each have our own unique vibration or frequency. This is very similar to how and why we each have unique fingerprints!  Proven beyond the shadow of a doubt through the STUDY of Quantum physics,
Conscious Creative Energy Is the Source of Creation and is the Truth, the Creator, which is the Universe.
Quantum physics Science is the study of this conscious creative Energy which is the Source of Creation.
We are all fragmented energy from the Source of Creation that created Us trillions of years ago and very far away from this
planet Earth.
We were created as an everlasting, ‘never can die’ Spirit Beings representing Creation.  Blessed be.”
Love and light.

Spiritual Or Soul Development – Cayce

“Regardless of whether we choose to believe in universal laws, a set of timeless principles that govern the very fabric of our universe, our lives are shaped by these immutable principles that govern the cosmos and shape our individual destinies. Understanding and aligning our thoughts and actions with these laws can lead us to a life of purpose, fulfillment, peace, and joy.

There is the Law of Love or the Law of Grace. It really is the only law. It is a reminder that we are interconnected beings bound by the tapestry of love. It almost seems too simple, but when we align our will with God’s Will, we are subject to grace rather than karma.

Love is not merely an emotion but a force capable of uniting us with the cosmos and each other. By aligning ourselves with the Creative Forces, we open the way for healing, understanding, and harmony. This law reminds us that opposites are two sides of the same coin, inseparable and interconnected. It was given by Jesus as Love the Lord with all of your heart, mind, and soul, and love your neighbor as yourself.

“…remembering that under the law of grace this [karma] may not be other than an urge…making [self’s] will…one with the Way…may overcome, may take the choice that makes for life, love, joy, happiness—rather than the law that…causes the meeting of everything the hard way.” (1771-2)

These laws are a guiding light, illuminating the path to a life rich in purpose, joy, and abundance. Knowledge alone is not enough. It is the application of wisdom that transforms our lives, allowing us to become co-creators of our destiny. As we navigate the journey of life, may these universal principles be a compass, pointing us toward profound meaning and boundless possibilities.

“There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, it doesn’t behoove any of us to speak evil of the rest of us. This is a universal law, and until one begins to apply the same, one may not go very far in spiritual or soul development.” (3063-1)

EdgarCayce.org, Venture Inward, Alison Ray, p. 23.

As You Think So Do You Create – The Law Of Attraction

As You Think So Do You Create:  This Is My Law

Always remember as you think so you will become. You hold within you all power and when you are ready to use it right it is yours. The seeds you sow will spring forth so see that those seeds are positive loving ones, that they are pure, good, and unadulterated ones, that there are no seeds of

greed or fear, doubt or hatred hidden amongst those seeds that will spring up like weeds and choke and destroy.

As you think so do you create: this is My law, this is a principle which needs to be understood and put into practice in your everyday living. It is a vital principle, which should never be ignored nor treated lightly.

~ guidance received by Eileen Caddy, findhorn.org