“When you are born into physical existence, you are born into a mirroring process. By that, I mean that everyone in your life is a mirror for you and you are a mirror for everyone else in your life. In a relationship, the person you are related to mirrors to you either something that you have not understood yet or a strength that you have not used yet. It is probably both.
Remember, you create your own life. You create all of it! Living your life on Earth has been, up to this point, simply a sequencing of steps and looking at the mirrors in order to let go of old resistances, in order to see your abilities and who you are more and more clearly.
If you have a relationship that seems difficult, look deeply within yourself. Are you reacting to that relationship? Is there anger? Is there a sense of betrayal or loss? Is there frustration or anxiety? Each of these emotions is what I call a trigger into a limiting belief which you hold, which the mirror of life is showing you. Why? So that you can let go of it. These beliefs are restricting and limiting, and you are not meant to be limited or restricted.
The mirror — or existence — does not let go of it until you have understood it and thus integrated that point into your creative base. It is necessary to understand this in as many ways as possible. You are ever integrating your understanding in order to expand beyond what has been understood to a new level, which will give you a new opportunity to understand more.”
Mahatma I & II: The I Am Presence, Brian Grattan, p. 8.
