“Once in a deep trance state, many soul connections will become clear. People in my client’s cast may be lovers, devoted friends and relative, mentors or associates. Our relationships with people take many forms in life and usually involve souls from other groups as well as our own. Usually, clients have a strong desire to identify these soul connections in their current life, although most already have a good idea who they are.
In a broad sense, love is endearment, which can take many forms in life. There is always a mental connection of one sort or another with a soulmate, regardless of the role they play. We connect with people on many levels for a multitude of karmic lessons in every life.
When friendship catches fire, it turns to love. Without abiding friendship, deep love cannot thrive. This is quite different from infatuation, which exists on a superficial level where we have those nagging doubts about whether the connection has any real meaning. Without trust, intimacy suffers and love cannot grow. Love is the acceptance of all the imperfections of our partners. True love makes you better than you would be without that person in your life.
Also, we learn valuable lessons from broken relationships. The important thing is to move on in life. Some clients may tell me before their session that true love seems to elude them. After the session they usually understand the reasons behind this situation.
If the 
right love for you does not come along, liberate yourself with the understanding that you may be here to learn other lessons. We mistakenly assume people who choose to live alone are lonely when actually they have rich lives that are calm, reflective, and productive. Connecting with someone for whom you have no feelings just for the sake of not being alone is more lonely than being by yourself. As the song says, ‘Falling in love with love is falling for make-believe.’ This kind of love is a fantasy because it’s driven by an addition to have love at any price. If your soulmate is supposed to appear they will come into your life, often when you least expect it.”
Destiny Of Souls, Michael Newton, Ph.D, pgs. 262 – 263.