From SoulMate To TwinFlame – Learn The Difference

“Secondary soulmates come into our lives for short periods of time to teach us lessons and then leave.

They might stay in our lives as short as for an hour, a month, or even a few years but they leave once their teaching was delivered regardless of whether the lessons were yet learned or not.

Their soul contract with ours ends here. If you can’t get a secondary soulmate out of your heart and/or mind, be it in love or in hate, it means that you have yet to recognize the lesson they had come to teach.

A primary soulmate is someone who stays with you long periods of time or even a lifetime. They come to accompany, support, and guide us through our sacred journey through life.

Primary soulmates can be very close friends, relatives, children, parents, or spouses to whom we have special and deep connections.

Karmic relationships are the hardest to discern. These are the ones who touch us the deepest. Usually, these have a romantic nature and happen between lovers who meet life after lifetime to solve karma they once, in another lifetime, created together.

Because sexual bonding happened within several lifetimes the connection feels very deep and profound as recognition is established on a soul level. Sexual bonding is a spiritual bonding that lasts forever, throughout the circle of incarnation. The sexual intercourse intertwines the energies of both partners and they might take on each other’s traits and characteristics to a certain extent.

When people who have a karmic relationship with each other meet they recognize themselves in each other and experience a sense of coming home to someone who seems to be “like them” and who therefore understands them.

These relationships are the most dramatic and painful if neither of both is conscious and spiritually evolved enough to acknowledge the karmic connection. Healing and clearing of this karmic debt must occur through conscious recognition of one’s own errors. Whether they stay together or separate the pain will last till the mirror is recognized and the lesson is learned.

Often, this type of karmic relationship is misunderstood as a twin flame or at least a soulmate dynamic. It feels deep and profound and unfortunately, most people or teachers give away the false teaching that the twin flame love is difficult or painful and that one leaves the other to learn some lessons and then might come back.

True love is never difficult or painful. It is exactly the opposite. When two people are meant for each other which twin flames or primary souls mates are, it will be easy, smooth, harmonious, peaceful, and happy.

Twin flames are the rarest and the deepest of all soul connections. These are those chosen few ancient souls who come from the highest angelic realms and incarnate on earth as beings who can vibrate at the highest vibratory level within a human body.

144,000 is the number of angels allowed by the divine to come to earth as humans to assist humanity during global ascension without interfering with the free will of humanity. The challenge is to awaken and remember this life’s purpose and then be in service to humanity by raising the collective conscious awareness through doing the divine work they have come to earth to do.

Sacred sexuality performed by twin flames emits powerful rays of light that are necessary for the awakening of human consciousness, as well as the twins themselves. It is called lovemaking because love must be made.  Love is the highest of all frequencies. The only real love is unconditional love.  Anything else is a fear-based illusion based on co-dependency.

The meeting of twin flames literally ignites their flame and there won’t be any separation between them. Their connection within this lifetime is the divine plan. They come together for a higher purpose.

Twin flames are one ancient soul that was originally distinguished male or female carrying both polarities (the male flame and the female flame). They split and incarnated in two bodies of one male and one female human upon their incarnation on planet Earth.  Earth is the planet of duality (younger souls are androgynous and they don’t have twin flames).

Unlike general belief, twin flames do not share the same characteristics or many similarities. They each are one part of one soul. Like two different sides of the same coin, they are complete opposites to each other but perfectly complementing one another.

One partner will hold the knowledge the other seeks.

The twin flame can be found near or in 5D. At least one of the two will have to have accomplished the inner work, their healing and ascension to be able to establish a meeting in the physical realm.

The spiritually more awakened partner plays the role of the guide for the other. This is usually the female who is more adapted to the frequency of the goddess energy which is the resonance of New Earth.”

Aurora Ray
Ambassador of the Galactic Federation

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After thirty years of teaching Inner City, Special Education students and forty-five years of metaphysical studies, I have decided to share my life's philosophical understandings on this wonderful website. For me, everything in my life has been a spiritual experience from being raised in an alcoholic household, to marriage and teaching, and finally caring for an Alzheimer parent. I have sought at least fifteen, personal psychic readings to try and assist me as a wife, teacher and caretaker. I want to share the wisdom that I have gained from following the valuable spiritual guidance from my inner knowing and from heeding the advise of channeled answers from trusted psychics. At almost 70 years old, I am writing, traveling and enjoying retirement in Florida.

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