We would demonstrate to everyone that we are cheerful, that we are optimistic, that we are happy, that we are looking for the best-feeling thought that we can find — and that we’ve practiced it so much that we often find it.
And then, 
as people say to you, in accusing tones, “Oh, you are a Pollyanna!” Announce to them, “Pollyanna lived a very happy life.”
Abraham Hicks, 4/28/05
No one can deny you or grant you anything. It all comes to you by virtue of your vibration. AH – 10/15/96