Attempting to Control Others

“Attempting to Control Others Attracts More to Be Controlled… It is easy to understand how you would come to the conclusion that your path to feeling good is through influencing or controlling the behavior of others. But as you attempt to control them (through influence or coercion), you discover that not only can you not contain them – but your attention to them brings more like them into your experience. You simply cannot get to where you want to be by controlling or eliminating the unwanted.”

Excerpted from the Abraham-Hicks book, “The Vortex.”

Esther Hicks Channels “Abraham”

“You need more private time… more time under the bridge.

When someone asks you to do something say, ‘It is my expectation that I will accomplish this.  I just have to insert one thing in the foreground of this request. I will accomplish it for you as long as I can first accomplish ease for myself in the process.’

It is necessary to attend to the well-being of your personal self first!”

The Reasons For The Emotions You Feel

“A belief that the behavior of others must be controlled—so that your observation of that good behavior will make you feel good—leaves you feeling vulnerable to their behavior.

We would like to help you to understand that neither the good feeling you find when you observe wanted behavior, nor the bad feeling you find when you observe unwanted behavior, is actually the reason that you feel good or bad. The way you feel is only ever about your alignment, or misalignment, with the Source within you. It is only your relationship with the Source within you (with your own Inner Being) that is the reason for the emotions that you feel.

While it is nice to find things in your physical environment that enhance your good-feeling alignment with your Inner Being, your understanding of why you feel good will make it possible for you to feel good regardless of the behavior of others.

Understanding that the way you feel is really about your Vibrational relationship with your Inner Beingwith the Source within you, with the expanded version of you who resides inside your Vortex—gives you complete empowerment and absolute freedom.

Abraham-Hicks, Getting into the Vortex Guided Meditation CD and User Guide on 11/1/10

“In The Forest” by Sanaya

“Help those with eyes to see and ears to hear your message that comes from the heart, from experience, and not simply from books and belief.  Do not worry about those who cannot hear or see due to their beliefs.

Read our words again:  Do not worry about them.  They are loved.  They are love, but their path is still unfolding, as is yours.  Send them love if you wish, but at the same time, do not allow the sending of love to cause you to feel separate from those who think and act differently from you, all trees who share the same root Source.  Eventually you will all come together again in awareness as love, which you are now at a soul level, but cannot see through the forest.” suzannegiesemann.com

Your True Spontaneous Nature ∞The 9th Dimensional Arcturian Council

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

You all crave consistency. You love predictability, and you are fascinated by the sequence of events that unfold in your lives in a logical way that you can understand and depend upon. Therefore, it is very often problematic for you to be faced by something from out of the blue, something unexpected. But we can recognize that the unpredictable is the true essence of who you are.

You are inherently spontaneous, and you have a tremendous amount of trust in this universe at your core. So why do you need structure, and consistency, and predictability? Usually these desires come from a place of fear. They come from a feeling of lack of security and stability, and they give you comfort where it is more preferable for you to be experiencing adventure. Adventure is what brings you new experiences, and new experiences add to your overall growth.

Comfort will eventually lead to boredom and boredom to stagnation, and then you find yourselves wondering where the years went. So we recommend that you have a new relationship with your reality and that you let your reality show you how much fun can be had through living in a state of inconsistency, and even a state of instability.

Often what you seek is insurance. You seek the assurance that you are going to survive, at least until your death. But living means moving forward. It means seeking out that which is unknown, and it is the easiest way for you to accelerate your ascension experience. Just do something new or do something differently than you’ve ever done it before.

Let yourself be inspired in every moment to a new perspective, a new approach, a new way, and see how reality will give you even more to get excited about. See how many adventures can come your way. See how much life has to offer you when you let go of control and you let in your true spontaneous nature. Let that take over and enjoy the ride.

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”

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Your Personalities Are Expanding ∞The 9th Dimensional Arcturian Council

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

You will discover new depths to your own personalities as you begin to integrate more of the aspects of who you have been in this lifetime and in other lifetimes. You are multifaceted and multidimensional, and the parts of your personality that have yet to reveal themselves are the parts that you have been denying for one reason or another.

It doesn’t really matter how these parts of your personality have been suppressed. All that matters is that they are reemerging, and you are going to find that you are much more than you ever thought you were previously. If there was a trait that you always admired in others but didn’t feel that you had yourself, you can expect that trait to reveal itself to you in the coming weeks, months, and years.

You are actualizing these aspects of yourself because you have come to a time where the integration process is being accelerated. This acceleration is due to a variety of factors, including your readiness to handle more of the energy that you are. You are energetic beings, and you are vast beings. Parts of your personality correspond to parts of that energy that you are. So turning on those parts of your personality is activating more of the energy that you are, which gives you more of a complete version of yourself.

You are becoming your higher self. You are actualizing different aspects of you that have been hidden, locked away, or even suppressed. Again, this has occurred for a variety of reasons, some of which are due to socialization, some are due to upbringing, and others are due to the past life experiences that the aspect of you had.

So you can see why you would suppress an aspect of your personality if it reminded you of, even on a subconscious level, a past life experience that you would not like to relive in this one. But you are here now facing everything, and hopefully embracing it as well, because it serves you very much to allow all of these parts of your personalities to come forward, to be acknowledged, and to be options that you can activate and experience.

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”

danielscranton.com