“A relationship is the direct reflection of your subconscious thought forms.
Relationships trigger us because they show us the things we don’t want to see. We have spent many years building an armor of identity to hide all the feelings we didn’t want to feel.
The relationship is the greatest gift and blessing if we walk into it with hyper-awareness and an understanding that this is here to point us out of our suffering. A relationship is not to give me something it is to show me what I haven’t been giving to myself.
A relationship is a bridge back to the real you. When we are alone we don’t get to really see the contrast because it’s much easier to hide. Many people struggle with relationships because as soon as they get into one it begins to unravel everything they have been escaping to feel.
A relationship is a great opportunity to fall in love and accept yourself completely. It can be the greatest healing experience if we let go and surrender to it. This is not an easy task because we have built up a very strong ‘aloneness identity’.
Aloneness to develop clarity can be very healing and healthy, as well.
But it is not until you enter a relationship that you can test the theory of what work you did while being alone.
A relationship will activate the opportunity for radical forgiveness.”
Lauren Phyle
