For whoever needs to hear this: I know it’s playing on your mind—the overthinking, the unanswered questions, the urge to reach out for clarity. But please, don’t contact that person for closure. The lack of an apology was your closure. The silence, the absence of effort, the refusal to communicate—those were all the answers you needed. Their actions (or lack of) spoke louder than any words ever could. You don’t need an explanation from someone who showed you, through their behavior, that they weren’t willing to fight for you or take responsibility.
Closure doesn’t come from them; it comes from you choosing to walk away, realizing your worth, and understanding that their inability to show up says everything about them and nothing about you. Keep going.Their silence was your sign to move forward, not look back.
You deserve someone who meets you with effort, respect, and care—not silence. You are worth more than breadcrumbs and half-hearted excuses. Trust that their absence is making space for something better.
