When you sleep at night, your consciousness is not having a point of attraction. You can wake up and focus on positive things. The unwanted will dissipate.
“We don’t want you to bring her back. We want you to bring your happiness back. And when you do, someone like her, or her, will come back … come back to you. You’ve got to let go of it being this specific person or this specific person right now. You’ve trained yourself to be conditional.”
“There is no possibility that what you want, won’t happen! Get over the fact that it hasn’t happened yet. There are conditions that you can’t control. Control the only thing that you CAN control which is the way you feel. Have fun with releasing your grief! Have fun with the alignment and Source Energy that is you!”
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