“A good rule to follow in life is to be ‘other’ – minded. Here is what I mean:
No matter what you behold, try to be conscious of that ‘other,’ greater realty behing what you are beholding.
No matter with whom you are speak, imagine that ‘other’ One, communicating with you through that person’s words and gestures.
Whatever work you are doing, feel that ‘othe’ Presence nearby, watching you, guiding you, giving you strength.
When looking iinto people’s eyes, see God there, touching you through their consciousness.
With every event in your life, watch it as it unfolds. Ask yourself, ‘What is God trying to teach me through this experience?’ “
The Essence Of Self-Realization, J. Donald Walters, P. 177.